The Daily Bitch calendar knows something about people who think they know everything.
I’m definitely not a person who thinks she knows everything. For example, last night I spent hours looking for the comet Neowise, not being wise enough to know that the time to view it around here had passed.
Before I shut up about that, I want to share why I spent so much time looking for Neowise last night. When my beloved father died in March of 1997, a spectacular comet, Hale-Bopp, was in the sky. I went looking for that comet with my son’s father, knowing that would help me say goodbye to my dad. I know we found that glorious comet and I remember how I imagined my father’s beautiful soul becoming part of it forever.
When I realized that there was another fantastic comet in the sky while our beloved cat Oscar was dying, I knew it would help to find that comet to say goodbye. I didn’t know that the last night to successfully view Neowise around here was Tuesday, the night before our Oscar passed from this realm.
If you know me at all, you know that I still enjoyed the process of looking for Neowise last night, with two phone apps and a pair of binoculars given to me by my knowing husband, Michael.
I hope you know that looking for Neowise helped me last night. Even though I couldn’t see it in the sky — partly because the Northwest view from here is towards the lights of Boston — I knew it was there and so did my “Find Neowise” phone app.
I don’t know everything but I do know Oscar lives on in my heart . Last night, my very unusual heart did noticeably better as I climbed the hills near our home. I know it helps to believe that Oscar, with his love, strength, and persistence, is part of me now.
Here‘s “How Little We Know,” sung knowingly by Carmen McRae.
I know people are going to leave great comments about this “People who think they know everything” post.
People who think they know this blog know that I always end with gratitude for everything, including YOU.