“Fingers Crossed” is something people keep saying and doing about tomorrow’s USA President Election Day. Why are people so nervous, superstitious, and cross? We have PTSD (Polls That Sucked Disastrously) (Polls That Skewed Democrat) (President Trump Stress Disorder) from four years ago.
I’m uncrossing my fingers, for now, so I can create this post with these photos:
Fingers crossed that people didn’t lie on the polls, because I am miserable from all the lying and dying of the last four years.
Yesterday, when several of us were living with intention and saying goodbye to our long-time social work manager (who always has the best intentions), I saw this:
live with intention. walk to the edge. listen hard. play with abandon. practice wellness. laugh. risk love. continue to learn. appreciate your friends. choose with no regret. stand by your family. celebrate the holidays that make sense. lead or follow a leader. do what you love. live as if this is all there is. — mary anne radmacher
I copied those words-to-live-by with intention, so I could “remember and do what matters” (another intentional quote by Mary Anne Radmacher).
Steve, the social work manager who is retiring, has lived with intention where we work for almost forty years. If it wasn’t for his intention, I would not be living and working with intention as I am now. Steve posted my position eight years ago through the Northeastern Society of Group Psychotherapy, intentionally stating he was looking for somebody with “a passion for groups.”
Last night, I told Steve that I had quoted him, with intention, in my group that day, as follows:
If you click on that “Never worry alone” link with intention, you’ll see that I quoted Steve in this intentionally daily blog one thousand, five hundred and sixty-six days ago (but who’s counting with intention?).
Steve spoke with intention last night, ending with “I love you all.”
I shall now share my other photos from yesterday, with intention.
Don Lemon has two words for people who say it’s not the time to talk about gun violence in America: “Shut up.”
After Wednesday’s mass shooting at a South Florida high school, the “CNN Tonight” host said that compared to other countries, America was “off the charts” when it came to this kind of violence. And that meant we have to talk about guns.
“You can save it. People who are saying, ‘Oh, y’know, it’s not the time to talk about guns’ or whatever,” Lemon said in a clip posted online by Raw Story. “Yes, it is. Shut up. I don’t want to hear it. It absolutely is.”
Lemon said the one thing that sets America apart was its easy access to guns, including people who shouldn’t be allowed to have firearms:
“So don’t tell me that it’s not time to talk about it. You talk to those people down in Florida who lost their loved ones. They’ll tell you it’s time to talk about it. ‘My loved one would be here if this shooter did not have access to an assault-style rifle.’”
If you were going to write a post titled “If,” how would you start?
If you were going to use a book of interesting questions for group therapy, which one would you choose?
If you were going to take photos for your thirteen hundred and twentieth consecutive daily blog post, what would they be?
If you had to choose a favorite photo from those, what would it be?
If you wanted to introduce some music in a blog post, how would you do that?
If you were going to provide a link to that music, would you put it here?
If you were going to answer one question in this post, which one would you choose?
If you were to ask your own “If” question, what would it be?
If you were going to end a blog post (or anything else), how would you end it?
If you always end with gratitude, why would you do anything different today? Thanks to all who helped me create this post and to you — of course! — for reading it.
The Year(s) of Living Non-Judgmentally 