Today’s post is inspired by The Daily Bitch, who is often a soulmate of mine:
You don’t have to worry about finding definitions on this blog, so here’s one for soulmate:
I like how that definition implies that you can have more than one soulmate, because I’ve had several in my long life. One thing I’ve had in common with all my soulmates: laughter.
Parade.com has many quotes about soulmates, including these:
Here’s a video that starts out with me talking to my soulmate Michael about the behaviors of our cats, who may or not be soulmates.
Do you see soulmates in any of my other images for today?
I wonder if Abraham Lincoln and I would have been soulmates.
Whenever I invite people to stay in the moment, rather than thinking about the future or the past, I acknowledge how difficult that is to do. Every moment, people agree with me. It’s difficult to stay in the moment — the human mind wants to go into the past and/or the future.
In this moment, it occurs to me to ask the question: Why is it so difficult for people to stay in the moment? When people do stay in the moment — experience the present with all their senses — they appreciate the break from regrets about the past and worries about the future. And yet it remains so difficult to stay in the moment.
Because I can’t answer the question I posed in the moment, I just tweeted this:
Before I finish this post, I’ll check back on Twitter to see if I have any answers.
In the meantime, notice the focus on the future and the past in these other images I am sharing in the moment.
In the moment, I think the Daily Bitch is inviting us to stay in the moment.
There are no answers to my question on Twitter, so I’ll see if there are answers on YouTube to “Why is it so difficult for people to stay in the moment?”
Here is Eckhart Tolle with “Accepting the Present Moment not the Life Situation!”
Now that I’ve gotten your attention with the title of today’s post, I’ll admit that toxic people and dangerous situations are getting my attention, here and now.
I find it difficult to pay attention to the positive when so many negatives — like injustice, climate change, the pandemic, and untrustworthy people with power — need attention.
Negatives naturally get our attention, including negatives about ourselves. We pay attention to the negative in order to attend to and solve problems.
However, ignoring the positives within and around us can distort our attention — keeping us overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, and stressed. We need to balance our attention in order to more effectively attend to ourselves and others.
What gets your attention in my latest photos?
Good food and cats have been getting my attention for decades.
This is what got my attention during the America Celebrates Inauguration Day special:
If you leave a comment about what gets your attention, attention will be paid.
Finally, what gets my attention is gratitude, so thanks to all who help me attend to this daily blog, including YOU.
This year, we are neither giving nor getting any material gifts, which feels like a gift to me.
Here are some quotes about giving and getting:
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Now it’s time to be giving you my latest photos and I hope you’ll be getting them.
Now, on Christmas Eve 2020, I’ll be giving you a question and I hope to be getting some answers: Which of today’s photos best represent this year for you?
When I search YouTube for “giving and getting,” I’m getting this:
Because there are so many moments you nightmare about in today’s news, I choose to focus on moments you dream about in today’s blog post.
I snapped that photo during some dreamy moments food shopping last night with my husband Michael. Many moments later, Michael produced more food moments to dream about.
Earlier in the day, I had some moments to dream about …
planning a 50th high school reunion to dream about with Butch and Barton,
taking photos to dream about from Barton’s and Michael’s cell phones, and
distracting myself from possible future world nightmares with these other moments you dream about at our local supermarket.
Yay today (despite the clouds) for all the moments you dream about.
Here‘s “These Dreams” by Heart, with dreamy vocals, instruments, and other moments to dream about.
I dream about comments from you, so please take some moments to leave one, below.
I spent many moments yesterday look for expressions of gratitude to dream about, like these: