I’m now coping with the realization that I’ve never used the word “Coping” in a blog title before, even though
- I facilitate therapy groups called “Coping and Healing” and
- writing this blog is a daily coping mechanism for me.
Does everybody know the definition of coping?
Here’s how the Internet defines “Coping”:
cop·ing
ˈkōpiNG
noun
the top, typically sloping, course of a brick or stone wall.
Coping may mean sloping, but that’s not what I was hoping. I’m hoping for the “coping” that’s a help with things dystopian.
I shall cope by searching again.
cope
[kohp]
verb (used without object), coped, coping.
1. to struggle or deal, especially on fairly even terms or with some degree of success (usually followed by with):
“I will try to cope with his rudeness.”
2. to face and deal with responsibilities, problems, or difficulties, especially successfully or in a calm or adequate manner:
“After his breakdown he couldn’t cope any longer.”
Now that we know the definition of coping, how are we all coping today?
I’m not sure how I’m coping, because today’s news is filled with others not coping very well. When those in control are not coping, I have trouble coping too.
Let’s see if my photos from yesterday offer any coping (or maybe sloping):
As you can see, Michael and I did some coping with walking, mowing, and respecting boundaries.
Good luck coping with this video I made yesterday about our new kitchen faucet, where I attempt to evoke Stephen Sondheim’s Sweeney Todd.
I’m coping with my lame line reading at the end and the fact that this video has gotten no likes on Facebook.
I’m hoping for some comments about coping, below.
Thanks to all whose coping helped me create today’s post and to you — of course! — for coping with all this, here and now.
You seem to be coping well with your camera
I appreciate how well you cope with your camera too, Derrick.
🙂
I know about the coping on brick walls, and I’ve also learnt to cope over the years. but just sometimes, all the coping tends feel like a stone wall, sloping against me…….
Coping can feel that way at times, I know.
Beautiful photos Ann and as you might have guessed, I just love the first one 🙂
I do my best to cope with my health situation and I would like to be coping with my jewelry again in near future.
I appreciate all the ways you cope, Irene.
A cat and a view of the water are great for helping one cope I believe Ann. I’m coping with starting in a new grade with a new teacher today and using breathing as my coping mechanism. In and out!!
Great methods of coping, Lisa!
You coped with the holiday very well, Ann. Back to the slope of life today, my friend. Don’t let it sink your spirits.
My spirits are sloping up now, Mark, thanks to your coping comment.
I love reading your blog but I am coping with my lack of wifi while traveling by not opening video links. Hope you are all right with that!
I am coping with it very well. Thanks for all the ways you help me cope, Maureen!
Your video made me smile Ann! I’m coping pretty well as I tie up loose eneds and prepare for our vacation to Italy tomorrow. 😎
I’m so glad you’re coping with a trip to Italy!
“Coping” seems to have gotten a bad connotation in some circles where it’s taken to mean “just getting by”. Getting by, though, is where it all begins.
Or, as Sondheim said, “If I cannot fly let me sing.”
Your comments sing, Chris.
Sometimes coping is harder then it should be
It is, Joanne.
I thought you coped really well with the leaky microphone. I feel you are coping well with adjusting to post vacation stress and unfriendly boundary signs. Beautiful water and shore pictures help me cope with my current state of wakefulness, when I should be sleeping. Oh well, tomorrow’s another day to cope with, thanks for coping with your blog, every day.
Thanks for helping me with my coping, in so many ways!
Just trying to cope with getting behind in reading your blog, Ann.,
No worries, Sunny. Thanks for coping!
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