The title of today’s post (in case you didn’t notice) is “Reflection.”
Exactly 104 days ago (but who’s counting?), I wrote a post with the title “Reflections”.
Here’s a definition of the word “reflection,” (according to Merriam-Webster.com):
: an image that is seen in a mirror or on a shiny surface
: something that shows the effect, existence, or character of something else
: something that causes people to disapprove of a person or thing
WHAT?!?! I will reflect something with you now: I disapprove of that last definition. I have never heard such a judgmental, negative description of “reflection” before!
My understanding of “reflection” is that it’s a neutral word. If we reflect negatively or disapprovingly, that’s our choice (and not intrinsic in the word itself).
Rather than reflect further on what Merriam Webster could possibly have been thinking there, I shall try another dictionary site. How about dictionary.com?
Synonyms Examples Word Origin
1. the act of reflecting or the state of being reflected.
2. an image; representation; counterpart.
3. a fixing of the thoughts on something; careful consideration.
4. a thought occurring in consideration or meditation.
5. an unfavorable remark or observation.
6. the casting of some imputation or reproach.
7. Physics, Optics.
the return of light, heat, sound, etc., after striking a surface.
something so reflected, as heat or especially light.
#5 and #6, at dictionary.com, are negative, too!
Honestly, I am shocked. Throughout my life, I have been assuming that “reflection” does not imply anything negative, by itself.
I’m reflecting, now, whether I’ve been naive and in denial, all this time.
Or, perhaps, the definition of “reflection” has changed in my lifetime. That can happen, you know. Any language, including English, can shift and change (even though we may not want it to).
If the definition of “reflection” has changed — since I first learned it — to a more judgmental one, I’m reflecting that might have happened during the time I’ve been working on letting go of judgment (here and elsewhere).
Another reflection, from me: that would be ironic.
I am going to re-reflect a definition, one more time, to see if it reflects my own experience of “reflection.”
Here’s the definition reflecting from Google, right now:
1. the throwing back by a body or surface of light, heat, or sound without absorbing it.
“the reflection of light”
synonyms: sending back, throwing back, casting back
“the reflection of light”
2. serious thought or consideration.
“he doesn’t get much time for reflection”
synonyms: thought, thinking, consideration, contemplation, deliberation, pondering, meditation, musing, rumination; formal cogitation
“after some reflection, he turned it down”
I’ll reflect this: I like that definition MUCH better. The last line DOES reflect somebody responding in the negative. However, as I’ve discussed with people many times, turning down something — saying “NO!” — is often a healthy expression of setting limits and honoring the importance of your own needs and preferences.
Okay! Now that I’ve found a definition that reflects my preferences, what else can this post reflect back at you?
Here are some recent photos that reflect today’s topic (in order of their reflections in my retina and my iPhone).
That last photo shows a reflection of Melvin, who is leaving Starbucks and the state of Massachusetts today. I’ve been reflecting this to him, since I found out he was leaving: I’m going to miss him.
Melvin may not like that reflection when he sees it, and he might ask me to remove that photo from this post.
Why? Because nobody seems to like the photos I take of them! Do you think that’s a reflection of
- my photos or
- something else?
Melvin lets me keep that photo in this post.
Because, if he does, that’s
Thanks to all reflections in this post and — of course! — to you, for reflecting with me, here today.
* Last week, I wrote about that pink sign on a door at work, and we reflected here that it might say “hope” OR “nope.” I promised I would check the other side, and reflect that back to you in a future post.
Ooops! I could have sworn I reflected the other side of that sign onto my iPhone camera, but I can’t find it anywhere.
You’ll just have to trust this reflection: The other side was blank.
Any reflections on that?