Day 460: Time and space continued

In yesterday’s blog post, Day 459: Time and space, I may have misled my readers about something.

As I’ve written about before, I love clearing up misconceptions and errors, as soon as I realize them.

I may have misled my readers in yesterday’s post, regarding numbers. As I’ve written about before, numbers can give me some trouble, especially when they’re big ones (for example, the numbers I need to keep straight when returning phone calls at work).

The misleading info from yesterday’s post was in a paragraph that — oddly enough — already related to numerical errors and confusion, regarding my friend Jeanette:

I tend to think that Jeanette’s birthday is April 6. It’s not. It’s April 9.  9 is 6 upside down.  For some reason, I’m topsy turvy about Jeanette’s birthday. Perhaps that’s because things felt turned upside down for me, when Jeanette moved away from Boston, several years ago.

When I wrote that yesterday, I almost added, “I think Jeanette moved away 6 years ago. Or, maybe it was closer to 9.

I was aware, when I was writing that paragraph yesterday, that I had no real concept of when Jeanette had left Boston. I just remembered the feelings, related to that. So instead of quantifying the time with a number, I used the phrase “several years.”

How many years might that imply, to you?

I’ll wait, while you think of a number.

Do you have a number in mind?


When Jeanette — who is spending a getaway weekend with me, right now, in New York City — read yesterday’s post, she pointed out that the actual number was larger than “several.” In actual time, Jeanette moved away from Boston in 2000. That means it’s been 14 years.

I don’t think “several” really captures that, do you?

So what is my point, on this fine morning in NYC?

As this man


pointed out (many more than several years ago),  time is relative.

According to that Albert Einstein quote, above, everybody’s a genius, so here’s Ann’s rule about relativity, right now: Time is relative, in our memory of important things.

Time has definitely made it to today’s post.  How shall I include Space, before I end this post?

How about this: Yesterday, after I had traveled the space from Boston to NYC, Jeanette and I were waiting in a subway station. This was during rush hour, on a Friday afternoon in downtown New York. So we were standing in a very crowded space, as you might imagine.

Soon, I realized I was hearing something very familiar: a saxophone, playing one of the Karaoke tunes I had committed to practicing on Day 422: Singing out loud — “Cry Me a River.”

For those of you unfamiliar with that song, here‘s Barbra Streisand singing it, in 1963:


When I heard the unmistakable strains of that much beloved song in that subway station yesterday, I turned and saw this man:


I think Leviticus (for that was his name) could tell I loved that song, by my reactions.

And guess what?  In that crowded NYC subway space, he and I did an impromptu duet. With Leviticus on soprano sax and Ann Koplow on vocals, it wasn’t a perfect performance. There were a few errors, since we’d had no time or space for previous rehearsals.

I have no idea how many people were in that subway station audience yesterday. As I said earlier in this post, I have trouble with numbers. But whether it was dozens, scores, or hundreds of people, nobody seemed to mind. Including Jeanette.

It just goes to show you:  Anything can happen, when you feel safe, in any particular space.

Thanks to Jeanette, Barbra Streisand, Albert Einstein, Leviticus, my entire captured audience at Penn Station Subway Station at approximately 6 PM on April 4, to all performers and audiences over time, and to you — of course! — for being here, today.

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30 thoughts on “Day 460: Time and space continued

  1. I understand numbers can be problematic. The number 65 arrives for me in June.

  2. Loved the Einstein quote.

  3. Ann, I have not had “time” (how I cringed when I said that!) to even come here for a long while, but this morning I said, “Darn it! I really enjoy reading Ann’s work and so THIS morning I am going to!” Well! Am I ever glad I did. I got the goosebumps as I imagined you, unihibited singing in a subway with this sax player. Awesome! What a glorious feeling you must have had! I bet you were floating at least 10 feet off the ground! And oh, I LOVE Barbara Streisand! I think I have all of her CD’s.

    Great post and a great way for ME to begin my day!!! Thank you, Ann!!!! Love, Amy

    • Always love to see you here, Amy, whenever you do have the time. Thanks so much for this wonderful, encouraging, lovely comment!

      • You are SO welcome, Ann, and again, I really thank you for blessing MY day!!! I wish I had been a fly on the wall to actually SEE you in your Premier! LOL xx

      • I wasn’t super loud, Amy, so you would have needed to be pretty close. A fly on any of the walls in that subway station probably wouldn’t have heard me. It would have been fun to see YOU there, though!

      • 😘 😎 💞

  4. Amazing what we can do when we forget to be afraid.

  5. I am so infatuated with the Ann in you that allows the time to sing a duet with a strange sax man in a public place. Way to go. I bet you two sounded as if you had been practicing for several days. Fourteen, even.

  6. I love that you took the time to sing an impromptu duet with Leviticus! Brilliant Ann you rock!!

    Now that’s living out loud!

  7. I love the name Leviticus!

  8. I love that you so totally participated in life and had a duet in the subway! 🙂 What a grand adventure!

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  10. Impromptu free concert – now that’s real music 🙂

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