Day 413: Zipping along

Today, I am flying back home, to a climate that will be more inherently painful to me than the weather in my current location. That is a given.

But, maybe, just maybe, I will experience that pain differently than I expect.

Yesterday, during my last full day in Boquete, Panama, I went zip-lining for the first time. Expectations were present; the reality was different.

Like THAT never happens.

Zip-lining, from the beginning, seemed like a risk, fraught with possibilities for joy AND pain.

Like THAT never happens, either.

The Joy/Pain possibility is a tough one to predict, but it can seem really critical to figure that out, before making a move.  And for days, during my time in Boquete, I did extensive research, and kept coming up with different answers to the question:

To zip or not to zip?

On the Pro/Potential Joy side were these factors:

  1. The potential of flying like a bird, something that sounds darned appealing to me.
  2. More views of the spectacular local scenery.
  3. Bragging rights.

On the Con/Potential Pain side were these factors:

  1. I am afraid of heights.
  2. I have never done a pull-up in my life, although there was controversy about whether this would be a critical factor.
  3. My capacity for physical endurance has lessened recently (and has rarely been “normal”, since childhood).
  4. “Shaming rights” — that is, feeling weird, different, or otherwise “less than.”

One person who was very pro me zip-lining was Ingra, who manages the daily operations of Los Establos, where we have been staying in Boquete.

Here’s Ingra, pre-zip yesterday, as she was giving me advice about how to let go of anxiety and just enjoy zipping along.

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Her advice included “breathe, a LOT” and “know that you can always back out.”  I thought these suggestions were wise, especially since I spout them myself, both in the blog-o-sphere and my work-o-sphere, too.

What is extraordinary, for me, about this portion of the story, is that Ingra and I got off on the wrong foot when I first arrived at the hotel.  She and I have very different communication styles, I think. I also projected a lot of judgment onto her. And yet, she developed into somebody I truly like, who seemed to genuinely care that I have a good experience.

Right before I left for the zip-lining adventure, she gave me a hug.

How did zip-lining go, for me?

Well, there are lots of ways to tell that story.  I could say zip-lining, for me, was a personal triumph and/or a personal nightmare. I could say I took a risk, and it was worth it. I could say that I showed bravery. I could say I was different from the others. I could say  I almost quit when I saw the realities of the physical exertion involved, but staff and I decided I should go for it.  I could say I had the thought, “This will be too much for me,” before I even started. I could say I had the thought, “I can do this,” immediately after that. I could say that I did more physical work than any other participant, because — twice! — I needed to make it to a platform by pulling myself hand-over-hand while suspended, alone, over the cloud forest. I could say the zip-line staff went above and beyond in helping me complete the task, once I became physically depleted. I could say that staff and other participants accepted my limits and applauded my efforts.

I could also say that zip-lining and Ann were NOT a match made in heaven (though the location seemed close to it).  Nevertheless, we both survived the experience.

As usual, the worst part of the experience for me was …

…. my old friend, Shame.

Shame told me, once the adventure was over, that  I had NOT REALLY gone zip-lining, because I had needed assistance for the end of the journey.  And I projected those messages of shame, at some points, on all other human beings within zipping distance. And those Shame Thoughts and Projections drowned out what other people were actually saying to me, plus several high-fives mixed in there, too.

My Shame was not impressed, when staff gave me one of these, just as they did to everybody else:

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The first thing Shame said was this: that’s not really your certificate, because your name is misspelled.

Like THAT never happens.

And, Shame said, there are other reasons why that certificate of completion does not apply to YOU.

Soon after that, the staff  announced they were going to show us the video they had made of our shared adventure. Shame said to me, “You’re not going to buy that.” Shame also said,  “Maybe you should turn away and hide your face, when everybody else is watching.”

Because that’s what Shame ALWAYS says.

However, I did watch the video. And for most of my appearances, I looked just like everybody else, although maybe a little more … blank.  Maybe a little less happy.

But  I believe that most observers would not have noted the details, which were — at times — so excruciatingly obvious to me.

Like THAT never happens.

It’s true that some of my video appearances were unique. Nobody else appeared tethered to a smiling staff member. And nobody else was shown walking, on a side path with another smiling staff member (who said some very encouraging and cool things to me on our  very short walk1 down to join the others).

Hmmmm. As I’m re-reading what I’ve written so far, and seen how many lines of dialog Shame has in this story, I’m reminded of a photo I took my very first day, in Boquete.  Hold on. I want to find it, to answer back to Shame, right now:

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Yay!  I love the chance to use a photo I haven’t shown you before.

Anyway, so back to yesterday .

I DID buy the video of the zip-lining adventure, and here’s proof:

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Here’s a better shot of two smiling members of the Tree Trek Staff, on the bus ride back yesterday, after the adventure:

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Thanks, guys!  I’m glad I made it.

Now we’ll see if I can make it back in Boston.

Oh, just one more thing. When I woke up this morning, I thought, “Gee, I wonder how small the plane is going to be today, on the way from Boquete to Panama City?”  And my next thought was, “I hope it’s a really small one!”

So maybe I  DID complete something, yesterday.

Thanks to Ingra, Tree Trek Adventures, all the inhabitants of Beautiful Boquete, people who keep up as best they can, those who have all sorts of reactions to zip-lines (and other modes of amusement and transportation), and to you — of course! — for zipping by here today.


1 A short walk, by the way, where we saw another quetzal.  I’m just saying.

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28 thoughts on “Day 413: Zipping along

  1. panikikubik

    Thank you for sharing your pictures and joourney with us Ann!
    And I think your so brave flying and travelling.

  2. Well down, what an incredible experience.

  3. You zipped on your own terms. Congratulations, Ann Koplin. (I had to call you that just this once.) Way to go. No shame needed. See you tomorrow from Boston.

    • Thanks, Mark, and due to other flights through the air, I’m back in Boston and it’s not even tomorrow yet! Great to see another zippy comment from you. Your friend, Ann Koplin

  4. Zip line is on my bucket list – and I’m doing it when we go to Vegas for my birthday this year! I’m glad that you overcame your struggles and did it! What a great memory!

    • I actually saw a feature on the Vegas zip line on the flight home from Panama today, Kate. It looks a lot easier than the one I did. Maybe I’ll try that one some day! Good for you for planning a great celebration for your birthday. And thanks for the comment.

  5. I did a short zip line once because I thought I needed to do it just once. It wasn’t my thing – but at least I can say I did it.

  6. The whole zip line experience seems equally terrifying and exhilarating. I’m so impressed that you did it. Shame deserves a kick in the backside. You are a superstar in my book. 🙂
    BB

  7. Thank you for sharing. I’s been and experience,
    Susan x

  8. You are awesome!

  9. I would have probably made this kind of decision, too. I am not so great with heights or upper body strength. My hands go numb often.. I hope that you are now relieved and feel reassured, no harm or shame needed!
    I nominated you for The Dragon’s Loyalty Award, as you are one of my newer blogs I follow and have made such great comments, I feel us getting to know each other! Anyway, if and when you wish to accept the nomination, I just wanted you to know you made my short list of nominees!
    Smiles, Robin

    • I am very honored by this nomination coming from you, Robin. I don’t accept awards, but am truly pleased that you would think of me that way. It also helped me to read your personal thoughts about zip lining today.

  10. Ann, you rock!!! What an incredible journey you’ve taken us on! You shared the beauty of this lush area and, more importantly, you’ve shared your fears . . . and your remarkable coping skills. That may be and old term – maybe self-management skills is more accurate. In any case, you are living so fully with those white knuckles of yours! I’m constantly learning from your revelations. Thank you for being willing to share so deeply your victories and vulnerabilities.

    • Kit, I’m not sure if I express to you how vital and helpful your comments are to me, as I proceed on this journey, white knuckles and all. Thank you for seeing so much and commenting on it so beautifully.

  11. Oh my gosh, I will need to go back and catch up on all of your Panama posts. It sounds absolutely beautiful. I was in Guatemala a few years ago… absolutely loved it. I too did the whole ziplining thing and was a bit freaked out about the whole thing! “Do they really have safety standards here?” and all of that.

    This post was so crazy honest… I feel like naming “shame” as a sort of external character that pops in and comments on your life is a really effective way of undermining it’s impact. I’ve dealt with shame of many forms and it really is just like that– an unwanted commentator who sneaks up to whisper in your ear that you don’t deserve to feel happy or proud or hopeful. Psshh! I really enjoyed this post.

    • Thanks so much, Aussa. This comment means a lot to me.

      I’ve got some catching up to do in reading your posts, too and — believe or not — I’ve been feeling a teensy bit of shame about that, also. That’s also a reflection of how busy I’ve been. I LOVE Aussa posts.

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