My friend Carol asked me, the other day, if the topic of money ever comes up, in the various groups I facilitate.
She pointed out how money (in this culture, at least) can be the most taboo and secret topic, of all. And she quoted a saying, about that, which I can’t quite remember.
When I just Googled “Money taboo topic,” these were the top links that came up for me, this morning:
Why is it so hard to talk about money? – Money – TODAY.com
Once Taboo Topic, Money, Now Critical Therapy Issue
Is Money Still a Taboo Topic for Couples? | Wall St. Cheat Sheet
It’s Time To Break the Money Taboo by Shira Boss – Beliefnet.com
I will tell you this: I made LOTS of mistakes when I was creating the above paragraph of links.
Maybe that shows that I’m anxious.
Maybe I’m anxious, because:
- I need something to eat (see this post, for more about that).
- I’m concerned I might be late to work (see this post, for more about that).
- My notebook computer is getting low on power (see this post, for more about that).
- The topic of money makes me nervous (see this post — and the one I’m currently writing — for more about that).
Actually, the topic of money has been coming up, a lot, in individual therapy sessions at work. A lot.
But not so much — or at least, not so clearly — in groups.
I wonder why that is?
I’m sure I could speculate about that, if I had more time (or a little less anxiety) this morning.
But I don’t.
Therefore, I would like to take this opportunity to post a photo, of something I have in my office:
Over the years, a lot of people have told me they like that clock.
I do too.
Thanks to Carol, to Joie de Vivre*, and to all of you for reading today, no matter where you are (about this topic, or elsewhere).
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* The store where I bought this clock, many years ago.
Interesting.
Thanks, Ann!
I love that clock!
Me, too! Thanks for the comment.
I love it too!
That makes three of us, so far, here. Thanks for the comment, Jennifer.
Ann, it seems we’re on the same wavelength about money. Enjoyed the post, less the anxiety. 🙂
Thanks, Eric! For me, naming the anxiety helps reduce it.
i really needed to read this tonight- thank u!
You are most welcome, and thanks for letting me know.
I thought you were going to teach us all how to not fret about money 🙂
That would be great, wouldn’t it?
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