I had a dream last night where I didn’t like what was happening and I wanted to wake myself up.
My father used to have these kinds of dreams. I remember hearing him make these odd, high-pitched noises in his sleep, and my mother helping him to wake up.
This dream occurred for me, last night, soon after I fell asleep. (The typical time for these dreams, for my father and for me.)
The dream wasn’t particularly scary. It just involved my son coming upstairs. But I had a “bad feeling” in the dream. And I knew it was a dream. And I wanted to stop the dream, and wake up.
As always, I struggled to transition out of sleeping into waking. I tried to assist that process by vocalizing — making noises. As I did, I could hear the echo of my father’s sounds.
Then, I went downstairs, to check on my son. I just wanted to make sure he was okay. He was.
When I awoke this morning and was trying to decide what to blog about today, I was thinking about that experience, and remembering that I’ve made a Note to Self about a future blog topic …..
Recurring Dreams.
I think it’s interesting what dreams recur for people. And I’ll tell you about a recurring dream that I used to have, a lot.
The dream varied, each time, but always involved these components: (1) at some point, I would need to reach somebody by calling them on the telephone and (2) I would have lots of trouble doing that. Something would always get in the way of my using the phone to reach them. Often, I wouldn’t be able to see the parts of the phone I needed to, in order to make the call.
Each time I had this dream (which was often in the midst of some kind of adventure-type plot), the results were always the same. I would never get through, with whatever message I had to deliver.
Arrghh!
I don’t have that dream any more. I haven’t for many years. But I remember what those dreams felt like, vividly.
Frustrating. Scary. Draining. Panicky. Discouraging.
Here’s how I’m “interpreting” that old dream, right now:
Communication is very important to me. If I don’t connect with people, I feel bad. The consequences of NOT connecting can be dire. Isolation is scary. Seeing clearly is important, in order to connect. And having an urgent message, undelivered, is terrible.
I actually like my old, recurring dream. I like what it says about my priorities.
And I especially like that I’m not having that dream, any more.
I’m wondering: What kinds of recurring dreams have you had? What do you think they might mean?
Thanks to all.
As you know from Facebook, my recurring dream theme is inability to get to a destination on time, often an airport, because of confusion over routes, missing connections, trying to walk there, and so on, I might be doing this in the U.S. or in Japan, or the setting may shift without reason. Habitual procrastination is only one of the factors I can see lying behind this.
Another good friend just posted her own blog post about recurring dreams, and she has similar type dreams to yours, Gene — usually involving the airport. I find dreams sooooo interesting.
Very interesting.I have had recurring dreams of walking down the stairs, but then I would free fall because the steps disappear altogether. Strange, right?
Thank you for the comment. I just did a little research on-line, and dreams about stairs are very common. So, not strange!
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